Wish You A Very Happy New Year 2011


Today its the last day of 2010 , and we are on the verge of a new decase, 
it has been a great journey till now , life with full of surprises wrapped and showcased time after time.
lets wish this year bring lots of happiness in this very world of our , wherever we see , we get the glimpse of sunshine and smiling faces.






P.S : See you All again in 2011 , till then enjoy :)

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Delhi in Blanket Cover

After the big day, Yesterday I had an appointment with a Doc for my Mom check-up , as she has gone through surgeries for stone in gall bladder.
So all is well now so 2 more dressing and she  will be fine.
Initially when I came out of the house , saw one of the surprise package i.e white Blanket , in which whole Delhi was covered.

Following are some of the pics during my walk ..to and fro.
 AT 9.20 AM
     AT Jawahar Lal Nehru Metro Station (9:29 AM)
 AT 11 AM Coming Back
From ROOF TOP 11.20 (SUN is shy)
It was really a cold day , though today as well but fog vanished early than yesterday.

Delhi seems to witness some more chilled days :( . But Delhi is lucky as it not as cold as in the Europe which is badly affected by snowfall.


P.S : Just thought of sharing :) the Pics to feel it.

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Wish You A Merry Christmas :)

Dear Friends,

Wish You and Your Family A Merry Christmas ,lord bless you all and give you happiness , peace and Good health and full of Postive energy to forge ahead towards your goals.







P.S : credit goes to Writter © Shakela 
       Flash Presentation by: © Steve A. Politte at 
       http://nethugs.com/christmas/its-christmas/

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A Walk to Remember

You are the one
walking with me
in all my dreams thinking of you
I always remember
A walk with you.

I'm blessed having you
who walked along in difficult times
Sometime I wonder is it true,
you smiled and walked with me.

In journey of life
there is a end to everything,
you choose your path
But I kept walking
thinking will meet
in life's walk.

May be lord has something in store
in life's walk for us
A walk with you ,
will always be remembered
Thanks for walking with me.

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In the wild : Check your security

In today's world , where threats from the web are evolving at  such a brisk rate that even for the security vendors like Sophos , McAfee Symantec , TrendMicro etc its almost impossible to detect and remediate and protect machines from getting infected , the reason being that the malware writers are now focused on Steath techology i.e being undetected commonely known as rootkits, they can get the critical information of yours especially the Bank A/C info w/o you knowing it and your Anti-virus security product unable to detect it and left as a mere spectator at that point.

So how to check if you are exposed to risk or your machine has been compromised.Here is a video from which you can easily check-out if your system have hidden threats residing or not Peter Giannoulis of TheAcademyPro.com is demonstrating how we can do it easily.
So before opening any Banking website you can check if any threat is not active.

                 
 

src: http://searchsecurity.techtarget.com

Do keep in mind that it doesn't mean we don't need to install any anti-virus , its very essential to have one best out of the above mentioned.


P.S : Dear readers , if you have any query on it or anything over the security sphere , do leave your comment will reply back.

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Foxed


Woke-up in the morning
looked at clock , I was late
freshen-up
Washed my clothes
in freezing cold water,
too cold for the hands
to feel any touch.
later went to take bath
with water mix (normal warm and cold),
felt okay on hands,
when poured on body
was a real ripper,
and heart shivering
aah
water foxed me again.

P.S : Today I was little late to wake-up resulting in missing my cold 
        therapy.
        

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WikiLeaks Tangle

WikiLeaks , which surprised the whole world with its lots of secrets  leaks around the world , has its domain down.
WikiLeaks has come under fire for publishing classified U.S. documents, including videos and documents from the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan as well as sensitive cables sent between U.S. embassies and the U.S. State Department. WikiLeaks continues to post the cables.

WikiLeaks' main website  was inaccessible since last Thursday night after one of its DDNS i.e Dynamic Domain Network Service provider which terminated its WikiLeaks.org DNS.

Though its in the news that the service provider EveryDNS.net the US based Dynamic Network Services provider has terminated the WikiLeaks.org domain name after a series of DDOS attacks ( Distributed Denial of Service) , since as further DDOS attack would have bring down the whole EveryDNS.net infrastructure i.e Millions of other websites hosted on EveryDNS and hackers would have access to all those websites databases.

EveryDNS.net said in a statement that they have given notice to WikiLeaks via email, Twitter and the chat function available over the WikiLeaks.org website that its domain name service would be terminated in 24-hours.

"Any downtime of the Wikileaks.org website has resulted from its failure to use another hosted DNS service provider," EveryDNS.net said.

WikiLeaks Later put a stange post over twitter saying "EveryDNS.net  has Killed WikiLeaks.org after mass attacks" and asked supporter to keep Wikileaks alive with continued donations.
Donation sounds okay may be after they might be short of funds , due to sudden down of their domain.

Amazon Web Services which also host the Wikileaks domains also confirmed the DDOS attacks, saying in a blog posting that, "There were indeed large-scale DDOS attacks, but they were successfully defended against."

The domain name service termination comes just days after Amazon Web Services stopped hosting WikiLeaks on its servers for breaking user rules saying that websites must use their own content and not carry data that might injure others. The U.S. Homeland Security and Governmental Affairs Committee, chaired by Senator Joe Lieberman, had also asked Amazon to stop hosting the controversial website.

Though EveryDNS.net said all of its systems were functioning normally, whats the Buzz going not harder to gaze , all is crystal clear.
WikiLeaks has asked the Web community to open mirror sites so it cannot be downed or censored and said on Monday that 300 plus new sites are already up.
Since Wikileaks is now under heavy DDOS attacks, they are creating mirror sites i.e N no of same sites hosted on differenct linux based server to increase the security and downtime as well making it vitually impossible for the DDOS attackers to put it down , so it seems this might be a game plan , thought well in advance as they were aware they are gona be attacked by the firms and other world bodies for their illegal way of working.

WikiLeaks Twitter feed are going to WikiLeaks.ch have a look at the screenshots below.

I am quite following this-up as to check if its a third party attempting to see where the Wikileaks getting support from or WikiLeaks itself , quite confused right now need to run the mind horses ;).

While as claimed by Wikileaks , their next target will be Banks, meanwhile from sources its confirmed that some hackers has brought down MASTERCARD's Website  www.mastercard.com under the "operation Payback" according to several news reports, including the Guardian and the National Post.
 
The Guardian wrote the following in its article:
The action was confirmed on Twitter at 9.39am by user @Anon_Operation, who later tweeted: "WE ARE GLAD TO TELL YOU THAT http://www.mastercard.com/ is DOWN AND IT'S CONFIRMED! #ddos #wikileaks Operation:Payback(is a bitch!) #PAYBACK"

Hackers reportedly used a distributed denial-of-service attack (DDoS), which is basically designed to flood web servers with so many requests that it slows its service to a virtual stand-still  and reaches a deadlock state.

Swiss bank  is reported to have also suffered a similar attack, and the hacker group claim to be eyeballing PayPal, promising they will be targeted soon.
Adding fuel to the fire was WikiLeaks' founder Julian Assange's arrest a day before yesterday for alleged sex crimes committed in Sweden.
So its getting toucher for the cyber security bodies to keep it under control as no solution has been devised to tackle suck attacks and leaks of confidential data.


P.S : Now virtual space has really turned into a warfare.So whom do you blame for all this mess ? The WikiLeaks ? or those named and shamed in the leaked documents?  or the financial services for cutting WikiLeaks off ? or the Hackers ?. Leaving this Little mind excercise for you 

pic source : http://cdn.venturebeat.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/wikileaks.jpg
                     http://www.wikileaks.ch
                   

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SOLACE

I shall seek Summer's Solace in winters
Blissful ambiance of flowers
seeking into the treasured moments ,
simulated sublimely for sometime in mind.

love , keep me away from acute pain
Sings a song to keep away negativity,
but there is a fear in me someone whispered.
the fear of getting deceived by life.

It will be a dead-end ,
if I would ceased perceiving life.
I must not stop , I must persist
In solving  life's riddles.

I'm only a poet,
no more people adulation
just a sheer affection.

you and only you budding again in bouquet,
after winter's iced chilled slumber,
in search of solace.


P.S : Winters finally back with a bang , with shivering cold all over the  
        northern region , I'm just trying to get into rhythm. just trying hands
        after a gap over poem at this hour!.

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Adobe Flash 10.1 For Andriod 2.1 Eclair : A Workaround

From sometime I had been researching over Adobe Flash Player 10.1 Active X control for Andriod platform , but didn't get any satisfactory answer to my queries regarding my Smartphone ( Samsung Galaxy 3) , since Adobe itself has given the outline that it supports only those devices having Andriod 2.2 Froyo installed and later came with the announcement that certain hardware specs needed to meet flash 10.1 over 2.2 froyo.
But after a series of intensive search over google and Andriod Mkt for the flash plugin , I came across a adobe activeX control file which unfolds the mystry behind Adobe Flash 10.1 into Andriod 2.1 Eclair.
Though it may not function that much smoother as over PC's and laptops due to Compiler diffrences and processing speed of processor and memory avialable over the mobile, but you will be able to surf the flash enabled websites especially the livesteaming media Like Live news sites easily and watch live shows.
The browser which best suits this is Skyfire which has the plugin support and has a special feature of video acceleration which fasten your onlineviewing by 75% even on slow GPRS network.
Here is the step by step procedure on how to install Flash 10.1 on your Android 2.1 Eclair phone:

1. The first step is to download flash_for_21.zip ( LINK -->> http://bit.ly/cqIZHK ) to your computer and extract the .apk file.
2. Now navigate to the market and install “Apps Installer” utility to your phone.
3. Now connect your Android phone to the computer and copy .apk file to your SD card.Make sure that it is in SD card root and not in a sub folder.
4. After this launch “Apps Installer” on your phone and follow the on screen instructions to install flash_for_21.apk file.
5. After installation is complete, simply reboot your phone and there you go! You now have Flash 10.1 on your phone.
This I have tested over my Samsung Galaxy 3 and its working fine though it has also been tested and confirmed that its working on Google Nexus One, Droid Eris and HTC EVO 4G Android 2.1 Eclair.

Hope this post will be helpful for the Andriod 2.1 users.

P.S : friends some of you might be bored with this technical stuff from my side , I will be writing something soon and moreover I missed some
of your post. will follow soon

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First Blog via Mobile :-))

Hi friends, how are you all doing ?. I'm fine and doing great, just busy with somee work and studies. Its been 3 weeks since I had opened my PC. And this my 2nd post from my cell. ..since i'm experimenting. . 1st post was accidently posted w/o I knowing it. .it was tricky. .though now I'm not using that option as its not that good. ..onle we can only do micro bloggong via that and posting pics i didn't yet figured out :( . But the best thing is. .thanks to opera and google chrome light. browser on Andriod Platform. .

A post from my side is long pending. .so I will come with one soon. ...just its work this week which will keep me at my feet...so looking forward to have great week ahead. Though I'm not feeling well today. .even we 3 ( Mom, me and little brother ) are having tough tym. .with health...I'm down with common cold... brother with backpain..mom having pain in because of sugery done again.
Hope and wish Mom gets well soon :-) .
I've asked my brother to do a checkup of self to identify.
for self its the cold water therapy ;-) .

Rest, now its time for sleep :-) See you again keep smiling. ... :-).

P.S :- Mobile blogging is really tiring lots of things to do.
especially when inserting pic. . Though I've added code
since posting via browser is of restrictive kind.
here comes the new era of blogging begins :-)).

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Good News For Mac :: SOPHOS Free Anti-Virus

Dear Friends , a very good news for you :) , if you are using Apple's MAC,then the IT security firm Sophos has Launched Free Sophos Anti-virus for Home users.Sophos is one of the Top most IT security solution provider which is engaged in provide Security with focus on Corporate sphere.














 
Now with the MAC Operating System Increase market share and its contentiously growing , so its becoming a more attractive target for the malware writers , hackers and cyber-criminals .

So its a sophos initiative to focus on security of the home MAC users. The best feature of sophos is its IDs i.e virus detection identification are Platform independent i.e  they are same for windows as well as for Linux or MAC OS and moreover its Backed by sophosLabs.

Sophos Having 4 Labs globally and they works on rising Sun model , which take care of all threats 24/7 .

MAC Operating system supported by SOPHOS a specification.

- Mac with Intel or PowerPC processor
- 256 MB of memory
- 150 MB of available disk space
- Mac OS X 10.4 (Tiger), 10.5 (Leopard) or 10.6 (Snow Leopard)
- Supports all Apple Mac hardware including iMac, MacBook, MacBook Pro and the new MacBook Air.


Download sophos Anti-virus for MAC from below Link

http://downloads.sophos.com/home-edition/savosx_72_he.dmg

How to Install Sophos and its configuration see the video and PDf docs @ http://www.sophos.com/products/free-tools/free-mac-anti-virus/support.html and if you have any query post your comment on sophos MAC forum.

http://openforum.sophos.com/MacAv

For any further info on this , feel free to get back me.

P.S : For more Info visit www.sophos.com to know more about the security and its oveview.

Source : www.sophos.com
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Wish You A Very Happy Diwali ( I'm back)



Hi friends , I had been away from this sphere for a reasonable long period.
Finally I'm back , And moreover I missed your posts as you will have missed mine.

It has been a testing time for me especially , when things doesn't goes the way you wish or look forward. But as it is said, all well that ends well. 

So friends , on the eve of festival of lights (Diwali) , how are you planning to celebrate it ? do let me know , its nice to see your views over here.
I'm thankful to you all for your blessing which is really working for me . My mom is recovering and is doing exceeding well in the process.
A Big XOXO to you all :).

You People has been the best , to whom I sometime look and find a connect , which is the driving force for me.
Its been ages since , I've celebrated Diwali ( 6yrs) the way it used to be full of fun and masti and dhamaal. Those days are definitely gone , but trying to re-live them is still within vicinity.
But as we grow-up there is a change in our approach and perception toward things , of these numerous thing one thing is this Festival of lights.

Its one of my favourite festival , which I throughly enjoy , where light reigns and darkness vanishes both ways naturally and emotionally and spreads happiness.

But ever since I left my native place , I pledged not to bust crackers , keeping in mind the very atmosphere of ours , air which is at its worst state and on this particular day especially for asthma patient its the very tough time to deal with.

If we all think out of box from our own selfintest ,and instead of busting crackers and wasting money if we can utilize that in some other constructive activity , from which we gets a long lasting satisfaction and which brings smiles not only to us but others as well.

Hmm Childrens are hard to stop ,but if we being the elders give them an insight on the adverse effects of these will surely make them mould into the logical and process oriented things then elsewhere.

Its the common perception of people , what will happen if I stop doing while others are still following it , well why can't we be the change to give others the directions to greater creative and prosperous future of the individuals.

Finally I would say Go green , say No to crackers.let you take the 1st step others will follow.Light DIA's candles and decorative lights and play games  (not gambling) and dance .

Wish You all A very Happy Diwali , May all your wishes comes true and lord infuses you with lots of  energy.


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Welcome Back MOM :)

Hi friends , finally I'm back as its been a while since I've visited this space.
Today being a wonderful day , as Mom is finally back home from my sisters place,she was not keeping well of late and was diagnosed with stone in gallbladder , and a surgery was recommended.
And by Gods grace my cousin brother a great doc from the family is here in NCR region. Where we admitted mom and after some tests , surgery was done and Operation went well.

My brother was there with MOM at hospital for 3 days , after that mom was discharged , but since there should be somone to take care of her. since we both are into jobs. so sister decided to take her home so..mom was there for almost 2 weeks. Went there in between to see how is she recovering and it was nice to see Mom was walking pretty ok.
 
And now really happy as today finally she is  back home.
Still mom need to take some precuations and lots of rest, will be fine soon.
I'll be leaving for Goa this week for an official gettogether which will go on for whole week.Though I'm least interested this time to go there as mom require care,but its official so have to go.leaving MOM with younger brother to take care.
 
I'm really sorry friends couldn't able to read some of your posts , I missed you all.

Though I've started a social network space , which also keeps me busy where some of my friends and friends of friends connects dicusses a space completely for friends. 
I named it Friends Space.If you like to join in there you are most welcome and you can ask your friends as well.Since I need to check who is joining in there is realself and not fake ones so there is a approval system in place (sorry for that little inconvenaynce), which take sometime.The url for the site is http://networksecurity.wall.fm
 
Though the url name is a bit diffrent from the Name of the space ,it was initially made by me keeping in mind my profession. Being in IT Security
field..but later changed since friends desperately wanted to create a special space, So thats how it came into existence.
Wish you great weekend.


P.S : Last week my External USB drive 320 GB  containing huge collection of important data from documents to Classical movies , software and songs and much more get lost , but finally able to recover about 90% data ( recovery of data took lots of time).This month is really harsh over me  :( .

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Rainy Day : A Complete Chaos

Delhi has been busy these day ...Guess ,guess for what ..hmm right for CWG 2010 , but in the midst of work.they are extending the the dead line ..and now its affecting the common man badly.

Yesterday (Thursday)It rained heavily , as its been raining from weeks , even my room at the roof was witnessing rain at its full swing water level filled  to ankle level.

Being a working day I was getting ready ..not for office but for a client visit in Gurgaon as it was planned well in advance , suddenly I got message from boss come to office ..I changed my mindset and almost was about to leave suddenly ..Boss called up and said "wait at home will let you" ..waited ...was bored of waiting tried internet but it was down since on Rainy day cable internet always goes off.. finally with mobile internet I socialize with my friends.

Around 11 PM Boss called up and said ..you may need to goto CP ..I was thrilled wow ..really then I will defintely have good time ...but it was for a while all the planning done washed away in rain ..order again came to wait sending Manoj meet him where we normally do ..to goto Gurgaon ...again in 15 min a boss called up ..you need to go by yourself ..Plan it.

I asked boss , sir its raining very hard here roads are fully submerged..and since I don't have my own conveyance so totally have to depend on PTS ..for that too I saw most of the four wheelers were having a tough time coz their vehicle got stuck see the Pics at my place.
But to get to the BUS stop , I have to do a lot of effort keeping the clothes and shoes as dry as possible then the trick of Ghajni movie came to my rescue when I was stuck at the gate whose base was fully submerged..didn't able to click pic of that ..
Finally I got A DTC A/c Bus from Safdarjung terminal To Gurgaon ..But guess what , it was a Ful Full Jam  and I reached near  Qutub metro station in 2 hrs , which normally takes 15-20 minutes, and further more It took 2 hrs more to reach the Client end ..it was so Boring to sit idle for such a long duration, did everything from calling friends and chit chatting..and listened music ..

There at the client end it took some time as they were facing some issue with our Security product , In night it was again a Jam took around 2.30 Hrs to reach home , the best part was I was in client's Cab direct to my place ..and finally reached home at 11 PM . There after had some yummy food prepared by MOM  and then some chitchat  Followed by my sweet sleep.


P.S : I'm posting this today as Yesterday I slept w/o closing this.
     

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O MY LOVE : MY MAIDEN SONG Lyrics :)


O my love ,
thinking of you,
to see you again..
my eyes sees only you..
when your eyes talks,
my heart goes in complete silence,
to be with you all the time
when I don't hear from you.
memories  holds their place.

O my love 
listen to me
trust on me ..
whenever i think of you
love vibes greets my soul,
Your presence lingers me,
makes me complete.

O my love
Thinking of you,
show me your glimpse..
looking into my eyes
you wishpered some words.
and changed my life.

O my love 
give me some signs
beleive it ..
I'm In love all over again..
you are all over me..
hold me tight , hug me ..
I don't wanna miss one..

Never felt this way before.
thinking of you,
makes me dance in rain,
on a song full of life.
like a flower in breaze,
sway with me , sway with me.

listen to me 
trust on me..
it has become a irressitible habbit,
thinking of you all the time
will be good to see you again.
I see you , see you, calling me..
take me up , close your eyes
Think of me sometime..
O my love.....my lovee..love


P.S : Hi friends hope all of you doing great, wishing you a Happy Independence
       day :) from sometime I was thinking of writing a song,then I read a 
       comment from the fellow blogger over my post Goodbye to give it a song 
       feel.Tried hard over it , as poetry was not my cup tea before I joined 
       blogosphere , but gradually and slowly I found a connect , its the journey 
       to explore inner myself  ..to unwind the complexity that has encapsulated 
       within for some time.. so do correct me  ..and add give comment over it.
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Goodbye




This post has been published by me as a part of the Blog-a-Ton 13; the thirteenth edition of the online marathon of Bloggers; where we decide and we write. To be part of the next edition, visit and start following Blog-a-Ton.


If I knew its goodbye,
I wish I could have been there to share last moments
I'm sure you would have lots to share
So I couldn't let this one go away.

For Sure there will be a day tommorow
for the making of an oversight,
will pray to god we get a second chance
to make everything right.

There will be another day
to pour my heart out  and say the deed,
deep core inside my heart ,
I missed you day and nyt
I feel you in the dreams I dream ,
the breath I take ,
you seemed to have been infused all over me

But if I didn't get a chance,
and today is all I have in store from god side your-way,
Then I’d like to say how much I love you
and I hope you remember the days and moments ,
from the lil fights to ; gettinfg  catty.

Whats in store , the surprise  for tomorrow no one knows
so today let be our chance to hold onto it ,
and get bathed into the memories of the past
and the present moment
 And today may be  the last chance
 You get to hold your loved one tight. 
Don't hold on for tomorrow ,
its very unpredictable , so why not today.

If the glad day(tomorrow) never comes
we might get ourself in a state of disbelife and regret,
that we couldn't take that extra step and effort
for a smile, a warm hug, or a gentle kiss,
you might be busy for sure ,
but what if this turned out one last Wish.

I will always hold onto it,
So my friend take your time ,
come-out of what you going through,
I wish i could know the reason , but thats the exception..
keeping the finger crossed , to see you back as before.

I'm may have been rude at times ,
but thata were never the intentions,
sometimes things go the other way.
I’m sorry,I hurt you at times
Please forgive me,
Thank you, or It’s okay.
whatever your take , just say it, Coz i'm holding onto it.

And if the day never comes ,
don't ever regret.
you may have some better things waiting to be explored.
I still the feels the way It was before.
It only has increased and will keep on , and will never cease.

Thanks for being such a gr8 friend.
Will be gud to see you again.
Just passing onto you a smile.. :-),
hold onto it forever.
whenever you feel bad ,
just look into mirror and smile ,
remember the best moments ,
will surely give you something to think ,
that life is not that bad as we percieve it to be ,
its as beautiful as we feel from inside.
But Now I am left with a word goodbye.


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Online Friendship : A false positive?

In this world of Inter connected network of network i.e Internet , a virtual space, which has gained momentum ever since its inception back in 90's. With gradual trasnformatopm in the technological front brought the world even closer , when initially Email were the lone source and later the messenger chat came in ...now in today scenario whole new concepts of video talk and mobile revolution has made it even more intresting.


So looking @ present picture and Social networks that are gaining lots of popularity , facebook & twitter has evolved as the centre of attraction..it made us to find our old days friends and our families ppl to be in touch.


Online friendship and dating has also gained popularity amoungs the singles ready to mingle.For me as the instance ,I've joined facebook and other social network ..more of curosity to know whats its all about ..Initially I hardly logged in ..butlater I logged in  to meet my old pals there and also few new ppl via some common ..social network interaction.


The Main focus of this post is about online friendship. How much one can  trust on someone ...prentend to be a friend , but has never met, there are lots of Flip flops in this.what I personally believe is that , we have to show our actual image who we  are, that makes us develop our friendship or relationships grow stronger.


There are some ppl who wants to take advantage , then this theory of mine fails staightaway.So what we need to do ...So testing a relation ( friendship) sometime is best to knock out the fishy thing in it, to know what actaully one made up of. And for me it worked too in many ways to find who are my true paals  and who are mean ...just doing friendship for their XYZ self intrests.Non of the methods are 100% correct , they fails too.


For example if I asked  a friend , why you are sad or not well.. one whoz not willing to reveal, says there is nothing like that while its clearly reflecting in the words or talks ..other will say it personal can't share with you as I hardly know you that well ..to share this.This feel strange but thats the reality ...of this world ..people are not open enough to share even they know person for a substancial period , whats the thing thats draws them back from being frank enough to share.


What I think , one can gaze from the 1st interaction ..howz ones nature is .. initially and gradually like other relationships this kind of relation ..(the virtual one) also grows and gains confidence. But exceptions do exhists. 


I'm Lucky I'hv got great friends online to whom I can share my heart out and get the solution of my problems at times , and trust and belief is the basis of this wonderful phenomena.
Wants to write more , but leaving something for you to say ...


Lastly I would say there are some false positives present everywhere.. irrespective of thinking too much on something irrelavalnt , in that process we are missing some true frend @ the cost of some silly Lil things.


P.S : Its just a thought .. I found a great ..live interaction tool to discuss things and meet the family and friends in personal via Video confrence .. have a look @ http://www.tokbox.com/


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