Its time to move on


In life we come accross lots of troubles and most of them we handle quite well but getting over someone whom you know and devoted all your time for months or even years is not around you anymore , its not a walk in a park. Undergoing the process of denial after the break-up is one of the most critical phase ,the depression and anger is narural but sulking in yourself in a room or alone for a longer period then normal, while watching the world passing you by isn't healthy at all, wake up and tighten your screws to move on. We must try to follow some basic during this phase.
Cry: We must come in terms with reality and express it that you are sad and depressed , there is no point in hiding it from the world and most importantly from your own-self.lock yourself in room and cry out all the anger and hurt , by 
venting out you will definitely feel a bit lighter.
Write: When feeling low , we must write our emotional front, either over a diary or blog,by doing so we give our self-esteem a boost, and pain within get relieved somewhat.
Talk to a friend : When in a confused state and pain , its always good to talk to your best friend , about your heartbreak over a drink or a cup of tea /coffee is a great catharsis , which soothe our soul.
Don't Listen to Love Songs: As we know love songs tends to stir our  emotional side , so try not to listen.You will end up feeling like a complete loser and that's the last ting you won't like to happen.
Keep yourself busy: Try to do things that you neglected to do because you were busy with with someone else before. Try to finish the old pending project you have undertaken and on-going,read the novel. Do all the things you want to do before but were just pending because of time constraint. Organize a out of town trip with your friends or try hosting a friends get together, be with positive people and absorb positive vibes.
Reminisce: Head toward a Spa , gym or even to a parlour for a complete makeover , to a break-up sometime a perfect hair-cut can do wonders. Tell yourself , enough is enough no more you and sulking days. Its unfair for you to see him/her happy while you are still there in your room wallowing in despair.
Give yourself a treat and stop looking miserable.Try to be in present then the past , which is gone and dead now and new life is knocking your door to explored,experience different facets of life to meet with someone special again for a lifetime.
Hope cost nothing , yet at the same-time its precious , so be positive and hopeful, life do posses miraculous ability to turned the state upside down.
Don't be negative towards love , that once you get deceived its won't workout again no be positive always and be a firm believer love will find inroads in your life soon.


P.S : Just want to share the state of which anyone can be a victim. your comments over it will greatly help others to get a perspective toward life.
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One Response to "Its time to move on"

  1. Sneha Shrivastava Says:

    Time is a great teacher.
    A person who goes through such a time gets very much aware of what is the right thing to do. Although its a knowledge which is very difficult to practice, it requires a lot of courage.

  1. Vivek Chamoli Says:

    I agree , but that's the difficult choice one has to make to be happy after that.

  1. pramoda meduri Says:

    All r good topics..

    i agree with all.. and i feel i can add below ones:

    - come back in contact with all good frnds
    - Maintain good relations
    - keep work up to the office
    - shop for urself
    ....

  1. Larry Lewis Says:

    I would like to add my solution that helps me carry on through an emotionally difficult time. I focus alot of my energy, passions and time on something else i love, my writing. My blog.
    I recite my personal mission statement to myself many times: “To help people achieve their personal development goals faster than they ever would in the absence of my help, to get them from wherever they are to wherever they want to go”
    This helps me deal with the absence of the one i've lost

  1. silpa Says:

    They know what's right..They know they have to move on..They know the ways to move on..Yet they can never move on so easily.
    Relations are damn complex.

  1. silpa Says:

    Hey this is neeha.
    Just I posted comment , Guess I am already logged into my sis account so her name is appearing here:)

  1. Vivek Chamoli Says:

    Thanks Pramoda for your nice input :).
    Yes they can come handy to anyone.

  1. Vivek Chamoli Says:

    Hi Larry , thanks a ton I really liked your approach toward life and a particular situation.

  1. Vivek Chamoli Says:

    Neeha , you are right relationships are complex that's y its hard to move on sometime..but we have to come out of it ASAP before we mess our life.

  1. Vivek Chamoli Says:

    Hmm , I got it when I open my mobile app I saw and knew.

  1. Nehha J Says:

    Nice reading! You've made really meaningful points here:)

  1. Nava.K Says:

    Have to agree with you that its about moving on, it can really be very painful but eventually its over and done.

  1. @mohinipuranik Says:

    I had intense debate, but I removed it, coz it takes so much loading time, about disqus , didn't try yet. At this moment blogger is better. But your site's loading time is not increased much! :)

  1. abhirup Says:

    intensedebate is certainly better

  1. warm_sunshine Says:

    Hi Vivek :)

    I out up with IntenseDebate because of the extra perk it offers and I find Blogger Default too boring to switch back. But when I have no other way, I'd have to go back to Blogger Default because it's more stable.

  1. Vivek Chamoli Says:

    Thanx Mohini

  1. myletterstoemily Says:

    such wisdom and look at the amazing response from your
    readers!

  1. lilangel Says:

    Nice post...the road may not be easy but all these efforts do help with time.

  1. lilangel Says:

    Nice post...the road may not be easy but all these efforts do help with time.

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